The Grooming Files

Let’s Talk ❤️🎤

I’m launching a weekly Q&A’s – Ask Me Anything. A space for open, honest conversation about the things that matter.

Ask me anything about:

Grooming, abuse, justice ⚖️

The system, institutions, failures ⚠️

Survivor strength, stories, or my own journey 💪🏼

Or just something that’s been on your mind 🧠

Each week I’ll respond with care, truth, and zero judgement. 🙏🏻

Sometimes I’ll go live. Sometimes I’ll post replies. But I will always show up. 🫂

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When Protectors Mirror Predators: The Structural Failures of Vigilante Sting OperationsDec 26, 2025
An early and extreme example of vigilante-style targeting occurred in October 2015, when 42-year-old lorry driver Darren Kelly from Basildon was killed following online accusations. A teenage girl had initiated… Read more: When Protectors Mirror Predators: The Structural Failures of Vigilante Sting Operations
When Safeguarding Means “Prove He Meant It”Dec 17, 2025
There’s a sentence in a recent Wales Online report that should chill anyone who actually understands safeguarding: The committee recognised the message could be seen as sexual but did not… Read more: When Safeguarding Means “Prove He Meant It”

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